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All night long (nearly)

Well it happened.

The 25th anniversary back to back screening of the Lord of the Rings extended editions took place at my local cinema last night.

I got to the cinema about an hour early to have a coffee and catch up with staff.

There were about 33 like minded souls joining me for this ultimate Tolkien endurance fan experience.

Once Gavin arrived I handed over my old copy of Parks first edition, plus expansions and play mat. I was happy to have found a good home for it.

Then it was to my luxury double seat at the back of the cinema to get settled in and ready for the night ahead.

After a brief introduction by the cinema owner we were straight into the night’s entertainment.

Each part of the trilogy was preceded by a “short” introduction by Peter Jackson himself. Which was a nice little extra to make this night feel a little bit more special.

So how did I do sleep wise? Did I stay awake for the whole thing?

The short answer is no.

During the Fellowship of the Ring I drifted off once. For the Two Towers that went up to twice. Then finally for the Return of the King I drifted off two three times in the first hour.

I definitely think during the last film I snored a couple of times.

However I was not the only one that had to rest their eyes during the night.

Was there the odd leaky eye during the “you bow to no one” and Frodo leaving Middle Earth? Yes for more than one of us that may have happened.

To help the hard working staff everyone took their own rubbish out.

As we left we were handed a reward for our remarkable act of endurance, a rebranded can of Taters.

It really was an epic night. I’m glad I did it. I had a great time.

LoTR Extended Trilogy on the big screen

Twenty five years!

How the time has flown and so much has changed. I’m sure I’ll reflect more on this after the event.

But to get a chance to see the LoTR trilogy movies on the big screen in their extended cut, who can pass up that opportunity?

I don’t think they have been released on the big screen before.

So I’m pretty excited about this.

The last time I did anything like this was back in 1977 after the death of Elvis.

I was (and still am) a big Elvis fan. Back then when the news of Elvis’ death broke it really hit me hard. It was probably the first time one of my heroes had died.

The celebrate the life of Elvis and to remember him our local cinema at the time The Unit One, held an all night run of Elvis movies.

My “little” nan (I was so imaginative as a kid in my naming of my grandparents, yes my nan was “big” nan, and I used the same naming convention for my grandads) took me to the all night showing.

I can’t remember which movies were shown, and I did fall asleep at one point. But I think this was the nicest thing my “little” Nan ever did for me.

Obviously I’ve done a couple of all nighters for other things. But they were not movie related.

I’m so excited about next weekend now.

Drone legal

As of yesterday the UK rules for owning and flying a drone in the UK changed.

Previously I only required an operators id to fly my Dji Mini 4 pro because it came in at 249g. Getting an operators id wasn’t hard as long as you had the pennies to pay for it you could get it. The only hassle about it, if you can call it that, is it needs renewing each year. The operators id needs displaying somewhere on the drone itself.

As of yesterday to fly my drone I needed to also have a flyer id. To get a flyer id you need to take a forty question multiple choice test. Which is free to take, and you can take as many times as you like until you get a pass (which is 30 out 40 questions right). This flyer id is valid for five years.

So on New Year’s Eve I took the online test and passed first time (34/40). It’s not as impressive as it sounds. You can refer to the drone code as it’s called during the test. In fact they actively encourage it. One thing I did like at the end was for the ones you got wrong it gives the correct answer.

I will also need from the start of 2028 make sure that my drone transmits a remote id. Technically drones transmitting a remote id kicks in from yesterday too. However “legacy” drones have a transition period before they have to. My drone falls into this “legacy” area.

I’ve looked into if my drone can be upgraded in some way to do this and the answer is technically yes. It can do it now if I use the enhanced batteries with it. Which I think I may have.

Another new requirement as of yesterday is if flying at night the drone has to have a flashing green light on it. Which I believe mine has but when using the camera it may switch off. I need to investigate this more.

I haven’t done much with my drone. But I want to. And the plan is to. Like my Dji action 4 camera I want to do more with them. However I’m not sure how I’m going to use them because I want to avoid using, or falling back on the tropes and cliches currently in vogue with outdoor videos. I’ll leave my subconscious to ponder that one for me in the background.

A Christmas Period Update

There is one last opportunity for some games to be played before the year is over. Hopefully that will work out. Then it’s a couple of boring stats posts and we are in the new year.

I did give away my Pokemon Splendor yesterday. My step sisters son is a Pokémon fan. He collects the cards but doesn’t play. So I decided to let him have my copy of the game.

My Christmas viewing, apart from YouTube has been a rewatch of season 1 of Arrow. Which has been fun watching these earlier, almost darker episodes again.

Diogo update

I’d say Diogo is now 98% back to full use of the leg.

I do notice a brief limp after he has been resting for a while.

Now to build him up to doing a longer walk.

I do have a new brew kit in the works. It will work with any stove. Well 99% of them that aren’t like a Jetboil type stove. It won’t be the lightest but it will be flexible.

Having a brew stop while out on the longer walks is something I really enjoy. It’s something I need to introduce Diogo to. Unlike Dolly who will have a bit more freedom while we stop. Diogo will be on his leash. Until he learns or should I say earns the trust to be off it. Which at the moment won’t be for a while.

I do need to look into training for the both of us. We need to correct Diego’s barking while excited. Whether that’s while I’m getting ready for our walk or while out and seeing another dog.

His barking Christmas Day morning at 8am upon seeing another dog did see a home owner enter into the Christmas spirit by shouting out of their window for Diogo to stop barking. Diogo’s response? To keep barking. It’s surprising how loud his bark sounds in the silence of the early morning, echoing off the surrounding houses.

I’ve tried the usual words in English and Spanish but they have no impact. I’m not sure Diogo knows the meaning or how to be.

So I’m hoping a combination of training and calming dog treats (ordered from Amazon) will break Diogo of this habit.

The other aim of any training is to get to the point where he has earnt the trust to chill freely while stopping for a brew.

Super Slow December

It’s been a long minute since the previous post. It’s either feast or famine on that front it seems.

Gaming has slowed right down. December is historically a slow gaming month. I do find it frustrating.

A brief Diogo update. It’s nearly a month since he joined our family. Somehow Friday afternoon Diogo hurt his back leg, and has not used it since.

I gave him the weekend to show signs of recovery, along with shorter walks to allow him to rest it.

Come yesterday morning the leg was neither improving nor getting worse. So it was a trip to the vets for him. The vet has put Diogo on a course of anti inflammatory painkillers. And another two weeks of light duties while on the medication. If that doesn’t work an expensive x-ray is needed on the leg, followed by who knows what.

I will give Diogo his dues he handles three legs better than Bud ever did. Going for a pee he literally does a handstand on his front two legs if he needs to go on the side of the bad leg.

This morning he wasn’t doing that and was able to stand on the leg while peeing. So the meds seem to have started making a difference.

New Arrivals 

  • Compile Card Game: Aux 1 Expansion
  • Compile Main 2 plus Aux 2 Expansion
  • Dark Moon and Shadow Corporation expansion
  • Tir na nog plus Blessings and Burdens expansion
  • Furnace Interbellum expansion plus playmat

It’s a dark dark moon

It’s been a rough couple of days as we work through the grieving process. Nico for such a small dog has left such an enormous hole behind.

But even while grieving and having much needed emotional support cuddles with the rest of the little monsters, I have bought another game.

The majority of my game purchases these days are ones of opportunity.

I belong to a UK board gaming facebook group that not only chats about games but also allows the selling and buying of games.

It has been known that on a daily basis for members of the group to post collections or games they no longer have room for or want for sale to those of us who don’t have enough games.

It’s these listings that I usually buy from these days, especially if it’s a game I’ve been after for a while.

One such purchase of opportunity from this group has been another copy of Dark Moon.

Dark Moon started life as a streamlined, dice version of Battlestar Galactica. Naturally being an ip licensed to FFG it was never going to see the light of day with that theme. Not unless FFG picked up the game. Which they didn’t. So it got released as Dark Moon by Stronghold.

Stronghold did release an expansion for the game that I never bought at the time. Then over the years the game and expansion fell out of print. Which made it harder to find a copy of the expansion when I remembered to look for it.

Which brings me to this purchase.

The seller was not only selling the core game but also the expansion. They couldn’t be separated because they were in one box. However at the price being asked I didn’t mind. Getting the expansion separately would easily cost me the asking price if not more on eBay (if it was available).

So I snapped it up.

This sort of opportunity was how I ended up with Discworld Ankh-Morpork.

Obviously I do pre-order stuff (mainly expansions these days) or buy stuff I come across via reviews. But those later ones I also count as purchases of opportunity because they were unplanned.

I’m hoping this sort of serendipity will eventually get me the Fallout expansion New California (at a reasonable price).

But it’s cold and wet outside

With Storm Claudia battering the country I woke to rain. Not a problem for me. However for two of the little monsters this is the nightmare situation.

Letting them out to answer the call of nature means them being hesitant crossing the threshold between inside and dry, and outside and wet.

After a little encouragement they find the nearest spot to the back door that allows them to do their bodily functions before making a dash inside.

I was hoping for dry weather because I have to swap over my tires.

Last Friday on the way to club night I hit a pot hole. Didn’t realise until I was leaving at about 10pm that my tire was flat and the rim had been damaged. So in the car park I had to change tires and put on the spare.

I’ve been avoiding doing any long trips, because until today I’ve not had a spare tyre. Didn’t want to get caught out. But yesterday I was able to source a second hand rim/tyre for the car with next day delivery.

That tyre is due to be delivered today. Sadly the estimated time of delivery is right smack damn in the middle of club night. So no gaming today for me. There is no way mum could take in a tyre.

The lack of spare tyre is also why Dolly and I haven’t been out on any adventures this week. We are dying to get out into nature again.

Transfer News Latest

I’ve just had Diogo’s travel itinerary shared with me.

I’m flabbergasted.

Diogo starts his journey to the UK on the 17th, and arrives in the UK on the 21st! Four frekkin’ days. Poor little dude.

But his arrival is getting closer, as is my excitement.

RIP Ace Frehley

It’s taken a day or two for me to write this post.

Last Thursday, early Friday morning the news broke that Ace Frehley, the original lead guitarist and founding member of KISS passed away.

Like the passing of Diogo Jota earlier in the year, the news of his passing hit me pretty hard.

I’ve been a KISS fan since 1982 when I first heard them round my best friend Kevin’s house. The album he played to me was Love Gun.

KISS were my first gig (De Montfort Hall, Leicester 1983). Ace had left by then, KISS had taken the make up off, and Vinnie Vincent was on lead guitar. Eric Carr had his drum set on the tank turret that was a left over from the creatures tour.

It wasn’t until March 1988, a month after the passing of my grandad that I had what can only be described as a three day high! It started off attending a record signing by Ace at a record store in Kingston Upon Thames. I drove there with a friend that I was studying with at Brighton Poly.

This signing and the gig two days later were the first Ace had here in the UK playing as a solo artist since leaving KISS.

So after queuing for an age I finally got to briefly meet Ace and the rest of Frehleys Comets, and get his ep signed. My friend kindly got a copy signed for my brother.

After the signing I headed back east and home.

As I said two days later myself, my brother, my best friend Kevin, and our childhood partner in crime Ginette drove down to the Hammersmith Odeon to see Ace play live.

It was a magical three days, I was on a natural high. Not only had I met my hero. But I’d seen him play in his only UK gig.

Jump forward to 1996 at my local in Guildford they had a fancy dress party (I think for Halloween). I went as Ace from the Dressed to Kill album.

As the photo below shows with the wig I made a pretty good Ace.

It took me an age to put the make up on.

The lazy part was I could get away with wearing a suit, and didn’t have to try and recreate one of Ace’s stage outfits.

There is another photo (full length) but I’ve been unable to locate it.

In 1996 I went by myself to see KISS headline Donington as part of the reunion tour. At the time it was the only UK reunion tour, but they announced further UK dates at the concert.

I was front and centre for this one. There was no way I was going to move from my spot. If I needed to answer the call of nature I was more than prepared to pee my pants. Luckily I didn’t need to go. Somehow my bladder held out for an incredibly long time.

This was a dream come true. The original KISS lineup in full makeup. And I was front row for it.

I then saw them with Kate at Wembley full makeup up, I think that was the Psycho Circus tour. And that was without Peter on the drums.

I feel lucky that I got to see the original line up in make up. Plus see and meet Ace as a solo artist.

Ace was my favourite member of KISS. A hero of mine.

Ace bought so much joy to my life. Gave me probably one of my most memorable life moments. Yes meeting him in 1988 was that impactful.

I hope his friends and family are finding some comfort from the outpouring of love from fans.

RIP Space Ace.

Remembering Nan 2025

It’s four years to the day and damn near hour (as I write this) that Nan left us.

There’s not a day I don’t miss her.

In the post remembering my dad’s passing I dedicated a poem called Epitaph by Merrit Malloy to both him and Nan.

I’m keeping the post short because it’s hard to keep writing through leaking eyes.

In memory of Dad, Still missing you

September is such a shit month for me anniversary wise.

Today (as I write this) is the anniversary of my dad taking his life 37 years ago.

It doesn’t get easier.

He regularly is in my thoughts. Particularly when situations arise and I think the people involved are lucky I’m not like my dad. Well in some ways I am. But in one important one they are lucky because they are still standing. They would not like the combination of his short temper and para training.

Yesterday evening for some reason YouTube threw up a clip from NCIS (s18e09) where Fornell’s daughter dies from an overdose. In the clip Vance is asked to read a poem he had been given after the loss of his wife to the NCIS team.

I thought the poem was lovely and would be a suitable tribute for Dad and Nan.

Epitaph 

by Merrit Malloy

When I die 
Give what’s left of me away 
To children 
And old men that wait to die. 
 

And if you need to cry, 
Cry for your brother 
Walking the street beside you. 
And when you need me, 
Put your arms 
Around anyone 

And give them 
What you need to give to me. 

I want to leave you something, 
Something better 
Than words 
Or sounds. 

Look for me 
In the people I’ve known 
Or loved, 
And if you cannot give me away, 
At least let me live on in your eyes 
And not your mind. 

You can love me most 
By letting 
Hands touch hands, 
By letting bodies touch bodies, 
And by letting go 
Of children 
That need to be free. 

Love doesn’t die, 
People do. 
So, when all that’s left of me 
Is love, 
Give me away.  

As a final tribute to the only man I ever feared but loved with all my heart (yes a lot there to unpack for a therapist) here are some photos of post Army dad. I think we can all agree my beard is more impressive, and probably why subconsciously I started growing one.

Miss you Dad.